Days 11-23
Time does
not seem to slow down here in Barahona, despite the relaxed attitude of the
people who live here. My days have been
filled with activities and jobs of various sorts, from the Bakery Project, to
the unofficial school photographer, to being a coach, and to just being
present.
Each day
starts off early with mass at 6:30 in the morning. I’ve adjusted to this schedule, although
reluctantly at first, and have found it peaceful to begin the day in church,
being able to see the sun out the eastern windows. After mass, we head back the house for
breakfast, which we quickly eat to be prepared for the kids who arrive to start
school at 7:30. We get our work done
during the day, with lunch at 12:30 and dinner at 7:30. After dinner, we have our personal time to
relax and get ready for the next day ahead of us.
Like I
stated in the first post, there are two sessions of school each day – one in
the morning and one in the evening. Each
has a recess period, and during that time, we all go outside to interact with
the children and relax from work for a bit.
At first the children were shy around me, but now they’re not afraid to
approach me. The other day, a boy came
up to me and asked:
Me: Yes, I am.
Boy: Are you white because you ate a lot of rice?
Me: (Laughing) Yes, of course! And
too much milk.
Boy: You don’t eat anymore rice. I’ll
eat rice and we can switch places!
The children are really the life of
this place. Even when school is not in
session, the children will hang around until the gates close at night, around 7
or 7:30. The Salesian sisters here
always treat the children with extra care and love, and with 700 kids, it can
be hard. Occasionally, a child will come
to school hungry, having not had dinner the night before or breakfast that
morning. While the sisters do not want
the children to get used to depending on them for meals, they will never turn a
child away hungry. Other times, children will ask for help with
a task or other problem, and the sisters always take time to give attention to
the children. When the children are
acting up, the sisters are not afraid to correct their actions, but only
through words and positive examples.
Just observing their attitude towards the children is a learning guide
for me.
Last
Wednesday, a group of us from the parish took a trip up in the mountains to a
nearby village. It’s ‘relatively’ nearby
in that it’s probably only 10 miles or so away from here, but takes about 45
minutes to drive to. Off the main road,
it’s just a dirt road that gets washed out badly during rainstorms. Traversing the ruts and mud uphill is a slow
process, but it was scenic all along the way.
From up on the mountains, you can face out and see the ocean, with a
dense tropical forest to your back that looked as if it could swallow you
whole.
Due to the
remote location, the people in the mountains have very little and live
thriftily. Chickens, hogs, and donkeys
are a common sight for the people there and provide food for families. Fresh fruits and vegetables grow in the
forest, which the people depend on every day.
Many of the villages are small pockets of houses packed closely
together; small communities scattered along this dirt road in the
mountains. As we drove by, the adults would wave and the children would run after the truck for a short ways, cheering and smiling. We finally came to a school atop a hill to donate supplies and visit the people in this community. As we pulled up, people gathered around to warmly welcome us and invite us into their community.
While we
were there, we also brought another gift.
For Christmas, my brother, Paul, gave me a soccer ball to take with me
on this trip. Well, I came to find out
that most people don’t play soccer here; it’s all basketball and baseball. Luckily, it was a new ball (American-made
too!) and the markets are flexible here – we were able to trade the soccer ball
for a basketball and get a discount on a hoop.
The school had wanted to build a basketball goal, but did not have funds
for one. Thanks to Paul’s gift and the
Sister’s bargaining (and a few extra pesos) we were able to get the supplies to
finish the basketball goal for the kids.
When we presented the gift, I told them it was from my family and the
Sisters here. To show thanks, they sang
a song for us, which was very heartfelt. Paul - know that your gift to me has gone much further than I could have made it go on my own and you have impacted the people here.
After the
visit, on the way back down the mountain, I was reflecting on what we
experienced. The people didn’t need a basketball goal; certainly it may
have been more beneficial for us to trade in the ball for more school supplies,
or even other items needed by the community.
But the group insisted on a basketball goal, because it’s more than just
an activity. It gives the children
something to do together, than they can all share in. It’s an outlet for the children who are
otherwise secluded from the rest of the city.
There’s something to be said for learning the value of teamwork at a
young age, and while basketball is not the only way to learn it, I think it’s
an easy and positive way for kids to do so.
On the way
back, I was speaking with a few of the other volunteers who made the trip with
us. Three were from Haiti, and had
learned English there (as well as French, Spanish, and Creole). They were encouraging to speak with, giving
me confidence that I’ll pick up Spanish in time. They came to the Dominican Republic to study
to become doctors. They spoke with pride
about their country, but also with sadness because the people need so much there. He said many people who are lucky enough to
get educated in Haiti end up leaving the country for good, because of the
instability of the economy and political situation. These young men were different though and it
was very inspiring to hear their stories.
They wanted to become medical doctors and return back to Haiti to help. They realize they could make much more money
in other Caribbean countries as doctors, but choose to help their people over
making money. As one of the Haitian
volunteers said,
“The government does
not take care of the people, the communities take care of the people. But what happens when the people leave and
stop caring for one another? Things will
never improve that way. That is why we
must help. If no one helps, everything
will stay the same.”
I hope everyone back home is safe and well. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Peace.