Thursday, February 21, 2013

Recap and Prologue to my New Mission: Part 1

I’ll try to use this post to give a brief update of the past four months: life after service, seeing family and friends, re-entry into America, and my future volunteer plans.  In that time, so many things happened and I have so much to be thankful for – I’ll do my best to share them in an abridged way, but I will apologize ahead of time if I leave out someone or something that should be mentioned.

Leaving the Dominican Republic…

Going from this to 40 degree weather in a matter of days.
With the conclusion of my service in the Dominican Republic, I’ve had a brief hiatus and have used it to rest, relax and see some loved ones.  My last week in the Dominican Republic was spent with a good friend in Caberate, a beautiful coastal town on the north side of the island famous for kite surfing and its beautiful beaches.  It was interesting to see the north side of the island and a great time to relax, but my heart was still in the south – in Barahona. 



After a week of sun, coffee, fresh fruit, kayaking, and relaxation, I was ready to go home and see my family.  Though, a weird feeling was present in me – that longing to see people that you have not seen in a while, but also that feeling that you know things are about to change.  It was a combination of excitement and nervousness – to take my present self with new experiences back to my old life.  What would this combination yield? 

Tranquility


I spent my last nights in Santo Domingo with Anna, who accompanied me in Cuba.  She was such a blessing to me and so very hospitable.  Sleep evaded me during my last night in the Dominican Republic, my thoughts were like a crowded intersection.  Thoughts of the past nine months zoomed by: the people I had met, the experiences I’d had, the sights I’d seen and they were colliding with thoughts about the future: my family, my friends, and what the future may have in store for me.





…and arriving in Louisville, KY...

British Virgin Isles
My flight from Santo Domingo to Puerto Rico to the US went very smoothly, thank God.  However, I immediately realized that it would take some time to readjust to living in a first world country. 

Quick story:  
My second connection was in Charlotte, NC and I had some time to spare.  For some time, I had craved sushi, since it practically does not exist in the Dominican Republic.  Giving into my cravings, I thought that I’d treat myself to a bit at a sushi bar in the airport.  My mouth watered as I walked up and scanned the menu.  The woman next to me had just gotten her Salmon Roll, but was busy on her cell phone.  My stomach gave a small growl and I wondered what I should get.  Not two minutes later, the woman next to me took one bite of her roll, laid cash on the table and walked away.  An idea popped into my head, but I hesitated to take action: Should I take the rest of her food?  She didn’t touch it except for one piece and it was just made.  Plus, it would be a free meal for me…

When I finally made up my mind to scavenge her meal, the waiter took action first, taking the plate and promptly throwing the freshly-made sushi in the trash.  She set a new napkin in place, greeted me with a smile, and asked what I would like to eat.  I smiled back at her, but replied, “Nothing, thanks.  I’m not really that hungry.” 

When I got back to Louisville, I was greeted at the airport with smiles from my family and a happy heart.  Not even the sushi incident could bring my spirits down in this moment.  There was so much to say and so very much to get caught up on.  We spent the rest of the night sharing time, a little wine, and a "puro Cubano".
The guys sharing a "Puro"

My arrival back home did not leave me with too much time to rest – something I didn’t think about ahead of time.  I arrived back the night of October 6th and had plans to fly to Phoenix on the morning of October 14th for a presentation – one that I had not yet made.  But all that could wait.  For the time being, I was happy to be home.

Emma and James 
The last couple days leading up to my flight were more hectic than I would have liked them to be.  I rushed to finish my presentation at the last minute for the INFORMS conference in Phoenix, leaving me with a feeling that I was not fully prepared to deliver it.  The day before heading off to Phoenix, I was able to relax and celebrate, as it was the day for two of my good friends, Emma and James, to be married.  The ceremony was beautiful and the reception was festive – a wonderful time was had by all.  The reception gave me a chance to talk with many friends who I had not seen since last January, it was a very refreshing to know that even if I had changed, some things like friendship would always remain the same.